Dentistry for the Fearful Child

As a part of the natural learning process, children are expert mimics. They take their cues from their parents and caregivers. How a parent acts or talks about the dentist is perceived by children. Be positive about the visits and what is being done for your child. We like to partner with parents to help fearful children overcome fears and develop confidence over time. It is important that parents be candid with us about their children's health and their concerns for their well being out of ear shot of the child.

Our office likes to use a "Tell, Show and Do" technique with young and fearful children. This method prepares children for what we are going to do prior to accomplishing the tasks and letting them feel or touch objects being used is also most helpful. We also utilize distraction techniques such as songs, TV, and conversation to reduce children's stress. Sometimes it takes several visits to accomplish all of our goals. Be patient if asked to return again for other visits.

In order to improve the chances of your child having a positive experience in our office, we are selective in our use of words. We try to avoid words that scare children due to previous experiences. Please support us by not using contrary words that are often used for dental care.

Although parents are always welcome in the treatment area of our office, some children do better without a parent present. The age of your child and their previous dental experiences are just two of the factors that will help us determine the best way to treat your child. If we suggest that your child may do better with you out of site, please do not feel that you are abandoning your child. We love children at this practice and will always support him or her at all times. When a parent is present, we suggest that you allow us to prepare your child and be a SILENT OBSERVER. This allows us to establish communication with your child and give him or her the proper information that they need to hear to make the visit successful. Support your child with gentle touches and love.

When treatment is over, praise your child no matter how small or large the success of the visit is! We look forward to partnering with you to help your child work through his or fears.